I have been thinking a lot about a Graham dance move whereupon your bring your arm out form your back, mostly latissimus dorsi, muscles. The difference between this and just flailing your arm out or limply pushing it away from your body is tremendous.The first way it comes from inside you, from a feeling, energy, being. The second way is a looks like a flop. Similarly, people who mostly (because we all do to varying points) do things for attention, to fit in status, family or race rather than it coming from their true being or their true being connected with God are posers, not real and pitiful.
