Projection

 Why the heck do people project what they think of themselves to you? If they are lazy, obese, stupid, not attractive, they say you are lazy, fat, dumb or not a supermodel? Meanwhile, the object of their misery and jealousy is none of those things, except for the latter and greater.

Women: Sluts or What You Need Is Sex

How many times have I been called a slut, especially when I was younger in a mini skirt? I haven't counted. The saddest part is, that I was usually alone and hurt.

Then, I have been told I just need sex, insinuating it will cure my feelings or who knows what. Or if a woman is picky for marriage or older, she just needs sex. #wtf

Reminds me of being too young or old, fat or skinny, smart or stupid, or whatever other projection

Lucky are the women who found true love who SAW them and treated them well the rest of their lives through thick and thin.

One Minute He Likes You, the Next He Is Gay! Short from The Dick Film Video!

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-NkhNnTcPo

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Guide to Fitness (two versions and the anti-bullying children's book The Boy in a Wheelchair are available on Authorhouse or AmazonMy other short story and poetry book Life, Work and Play, fitness book Pocket

Guide to Fitness (two versions and the anti-bullying children's book The Boy in a Wheelchair are available on Authorhouse or Amazon

Gender

 Gender reveal parties while children change genders, and some parents are all right with it

(Probably okay in rare circumstances)

This could be a long post, but that's it for now.

Declining Masculinity

 A man, tall and built, professional dancer is upset when in dance class you have a male partner for a few minutes.

The heat between him and the woman is so that you feel the metal ballet bar want to melt when they lean against it.

When she talks to him, his voice goes high a bit and he turns away.

In a recent past photograph with his ex-girlfriend, he declares God is a woman.

He puts up an insulting rap song when the woman mentions a male amputee's spirit.

He posts Instagram photographs and songs alluding to his cheating.

Another photograph shows his brilliant mother waving her hands no, perhaps on his being with an older woman.

All the while, there are no dates and no trace of their love exists, except in immortal, timeless particles in the Universe.

He sends an email alluding to her age, as if he shouldn't be happy she'd even look at or consider him at any age.

During winter classes, his male energy has declined more. He is thinner, his face is at times not as handsome as in the summer, his voice is higher, and his masculine energy seems cut.

Months later, he is with a man, declaring he is his best view, world, and pretty boy. When did they meet? Was he with him and others, like a lady whose place he slept at months earlier? Perhaps the new masculine is two gay old-fashioned men.

His mother beams that he changed sexual orientations (unless it was always that way, as some older photographs, even with the ex, had gay facial expressions. God forbid he'd be with an older woman. The sky would fall, according to his mother. What a great mother-in-law she'd make for this woman.

Months later, there is still no explanation for the beautiful inside-and-out older lady.

Looks and Status

Why is it that people give credit to people for their character, smarts, education and looks but don't to others who have those qualities to a higher extent? Jealousy? 

Professionals, Get It Straight

Why do professionals such as the following tell you one thing, then another? Who is correct?

plumbers
doctors
dentists
psychologists